COUPLES COACHING + INDIVIDUAL COACHING | DENVER + ONLINE
Stop Repeating the Same Fights. Start Building the Relationship You Actually Want.
Relationship coaching grounded in Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and the Love Wisely Method™ for couples and individuals ready to change the patterns, not just manage them.
Voted #1 Coaching Service in Denver 2024 & 2025 | Serving clients online and in Denver, Colorado since 2014
You already know what you’re doing isn’t working.
Most couples don’t lack love. They lack a new way of relating.
If you’ve tried talking it out, reading the books, or going through the motions of “better communication” and still end up in the same fights, the same distance, the same painful cycle: that’s not a failure of effort. That’s a signal that surface-level fixes won’t reach what’s actually driving the pattern.
Couples coaching with Mary Ellen goes deeper. Using Relational Life Therapy and the Love Wisely Method™, we work on the identity-level shifts that change how you show up with your partner, and with yourself.
Ways to Work Together
Couples Coaching
For couples who love each other but keep getting stuck in the same loop. Whether you’re in crisis or just quietly drifting apart, this work gets to the root of what’s actually happening between you and gives you a real path forward.
Individual Coaching
For the person who knows their patterns are costing them in love and life and is ready to do something about it. Career, relationships, self-worth: it’s all connected, and it all starts with you.
You’re in the right place if you’ve ever thought…
“I can see the patterns I want to change but I just can’t seem to change them.”
Body-based coaching will help you integrate what you mentally know into embodied knowing so it’s accessible even in moments of stress.
Here’s how we start

Book a Discovery Call
A 30-60 minute conversation. No pressure, no pitch. We get clear on what you’re dealing with, what you want, and whether working together makes sense. Schedule here.

Choose your path
Couples coaching, individual coaching, or breathwork. We’ll figure out the right fit based on your situation and goals.

Do the real work
This isn’t talk therapy. Sessions are structured, direct, and designed to move you. Most clients notice a shift within the first few sessions.



