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Coach Mary Ellen

RELATIONSHIP + PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION | DENVER + ONLINE

Stop Repeating the Patterns That Keep You From the Life and Love You Want

You can know what you should do differently and still get pulled back into the same reactions, relationship dynamics, and emotional loops.

I help couples and individuals understand what’s underneath those patterns and create lasting change through the Love Wisely Method™, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and deeper nervous-system work.

Winner 2024 Best of Mile High
Best of Mile High Winner 2025

Voted #1 Coaching Service in Denver 2024 & 2025 | Serving clients online and in Denver, Colorado since 2014

You Already Know What You’re Doing Isn’t Working

Maybe you’ve talked it to death.

Read the books.

Listened to the podcasts.

Learned the communication tools.

Done therapy or other personal-growth work.

And intellectually, you understand yourself pretty well.

But then your partner uses that tone.

Someone pulls away.

You feel rejected.

You get overwhelmed.

An old fear gets activated.

And suddenly the version of you who “knows better” is nowhere to be found.

That’s the work I’m interested in.

Not giving you more information to understand.

Helping you change the Protective Patterns that take over when life or relationships feel vulnerable, so the change you’re creating is actually available to you in real life.

Ways to Work Together

Couples Coaching

Change what happens between you.

Pranasoma Coaching

Become the couple who knows how to handle hard things without losing each other. See the pattern. Change the dance. Restore connection.

Individual Coaching

Change what happens inside you and how you relate.

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Change the patterns that are keeping you from your best love and life. Career, relationships, self-worth: it’s all connected, and it all starts with you.

Breathwork

Move what talking/thinking alone isn’t shifting.

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Process what the mind alone can’t move. A somatic, body-based practice that’s offered as deep healing work or woven into coaching as needed.

You’re in the right place if you’ve ever thought…
“I can see the patterns I want to change but I just can’t seem to change them.”

Body-based coaching will help you integrate what you mentally know into embodied knowing so it’s accessible even in moments of stress.

Here’s how we start

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Book a Discovery Call

A 30-60 minute conversation. No pressure, no pitch. We get clear on what you’re dealing with, what you want, and whether working together makes sense. Schedule here.

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Choose your path

Couples coaching, individual coaching, or breathwork. We’ll figure out the right fit based on your situation and goals.

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Do the real work

I use RLT within my coaching practice rather than providing psychotherapy. Sessions are structured, direct, and designed to move you. Most clients notice a shift within the first few sessions.